How We Love Workbook, Expanded Edition: Making Deeper Connections in Marriage

Amazing insight into parenting

Awesome and a great christian approach to dealing with unresolved childhood trauma affecting adulthood, its really helping me and my husband

Good to understand how family relationships have influenced my relationship with my husband. It was helpful to me. I was not able to finish the book because my husband was not interested in participating. Good for a couple are both have the courage to look at their own faults.

I love this book and its work book. It’s helped a lot and I’m not even married yet lol, my boyfriend and I have been reading this book and are working on the work book together as-well. It’s so worth the value! Please if you’re having struggles in your relationship read this book and complete the work book. It opens your mind towards forgiveness and compassion for your spouse!

Highly recommend.

I really love this book so far. The work is grounded in real psychology and draws heavily from The Attachment Handbook and major Attachment Theory publications over the last 50 years since Bowlby and Ainsworth. It was recommended to me by a lovely marriage and family therapist (LMFT) who was using it herself. It really has benefited me in the short two weeks I've had it more than just about any other Bible Study or self-help book. It is Christian focused, but aside from the statements of Faith and Truth, looking into your past and your memories and touching on what is underneath the pain and miscommunications, anger and shame we experience with those closest to us who we love deeply, yet as they say in the book, we often dance the wrong steps and step on toes (sometimes our own) and trip up in relationship. Learning a "new dance" will benefit your ability to love, see, hear, and connect with your partner and family. I'm convinced it can and will help you in every part of your daily life if you are willing to make the effort to see your part in the problem. It has helped me with a lot of my preconceived notions and given me a lot more empathy. It has helped me see what tender emotions are underneath that anger. I would recommend it for adults in relationship or who are "single". Be warned: The work in this book is very difficult and you will find internal resistance. For me that means it is working towards the good stuff and provides hope that real change is possible.