BestSelf Intimacy Deck – 170 Conversation Cards for Couples

These conversation cards have honestly been great for helping us reconnect during busy seasons of life. We started using a few cards several times a week, and it created meaningful conversations we probably wouldn’t have had otherwise. The questions range from fun and lighthearted to deeper topics that really help strengthen communication and connection. What I like most is how easy they are to use. Even after long days, pulling a few cards feels simple and natural instead of forced. It’s been a great way for us to slow down and intentionally spend quality time together. We’ve enjoyed this deck so much that we’re already planning to buy more versions with different question sets. Definitely recommend for couples wanting to reconnect, communicate better, or just spend more intentional time together.

These cards have been a game changer for my marriage! Sometimes you don't want to read a heavy marriage book and just want to talk....but not sure where to start. These cards are excellent conversation starters with some of the topics being fun and some more meaningful. Worth the buy - worth the try!

I really love these cards. As a therapist, I find the questions challenging while also necessary and ways that people can talk about hard things without feeling like they have to confront their partner. My boyfriend and I read these with my parents and we ended up having a great conversation. Highly recommend if you’re looking for deeper connection and understanding.

Thought it was an actual game but it was more personal questions to get to know your wife/husband/partner more. Helps with creating conversation and learning new things about each other. Still was worth the price and a good time.

Great questions and a great way for my husband and I to stay connected!

I was hesitant before buying these because there are so many different brands on Amazon but this one definitely had my partner and I having deep conversations! Every question was unique and it really developed great intimacy. Not too many "controversial questions" and I felt like the cards were respectful. The price was great as well.

Good game and fun to play - worth the money

I picked this up hoping for a fun way to spark deeper conversations with my partner, and while it's a sweet concept, it didn’t fully live up to my expectations. The cards are definitely durable and feel high quality. They’re easy to clean if anything gets on them, which is nice since we sometimes use them while snacking or drinking. It’s fun to play casually and makes for a nice little date night activity. Some questions did lead to meaningful moments, but honestly, the card variety just wasn’t what I hoped for. A lot of the prompts feel repetitive or too similar, and after going through a few, it started to feel kind of predictable. I was hoping for more creativity and depth. It’s definitely not made for kids — most of the content is romantic or emotionally intimate — but it could be a cute gift for couples who are still getting to know each other. For long-term couples, it might not bring much new to the table. Overall, it’s fun once in a while, but not something I’d use regularly.

There are six different categories. And 150 prompts, it’s a mixture of different aspects of your relationship that it has questions about and it is giving my husband and I ideas for questions for each other that we had never thought about asking each other before. I’m learning so much about him and vice versa. It’s brought us closer together And it’s such a convenient little box. Definitely recommend!

My partner and I love these cards they are great for starting engaging conversations, we often only use one card and then can talk for hours and hours about several topics it just helps to have a little conversation starter sometimes. I have also used some of the (non - raunchy) cards with friends and family

I think this product is a great gateway to a deeper connection with your significant other. Whether you’re in the early stages of a relationship or been together for years, it’s a great way to getting to know each other on a deeper level. There are six categories : past, random, life, relationship, intimacy and about you. You decide on what subject area you want to talk about and select a card on that area to ask each other about. The box is sturdy and it feels like a quality product. I think it’s worth the price point though others might disagree. Give it a go and see where your conversations take you. It’s true what the intro write up says: “strong relationships are built on strong communication”. Enjoy.

Probably not for a middle age couple who know each other well...

I got this for my partner and it went down a treat actually, I was surprised at just how well it was received. We'd had plenty of conversations in the past, but sometimes communication could be an issue and I began to feel it was a struggle to delve deeper and totally open up, to share feelings and experiences, hopes and dreams. Sitting down and going through these cards was as interesting, funny, insightful, and a great experience on numerous occasions. It really helped us get to know each other better, with things we'd never thought of sharing before. Quite a range of things included on the cards, some more apt than others, but overall a good product that I'm glad I bought